It just gets worse and worse

Eveytime SIL comes grson gets hyper very hard to calm down.  Monday when sil was here gr-son was so hard to handle yelling and running and not listening like he was on speed or something.  Sil was yelling at him and had swatted him -I waled out of the house and husband followed me.   We could hear sil yelling and I turned around and came back in.  Sil had grandson on the bed holding him by his shoulders and had his knee beside boy. (to anyone else reading baby is 6 yrs old)  I knew he was restraining him, but sil has hit child before and left welts on his body and I lost it, I screamed to get his hands off of gr-son.   At the top of my lungs I told him to get his hands off of that boy or I would turn him in. He said thats  my child I told him to let him go and to get out of my house -sil would not leave,   I know that he is an abusive father.  My husband saw it all and he agrees, he said we need to turn him in.We are only hesitating because of daughter and gr. son.  Daughter said sil would not hurt gr son.  But yelling is hurting him and smaking him on his bare legs is abusing him.  Sil says such rediculous things like this-once when they were here grandson ran past him and kicked sil on the leg (I think accidently) SIL  kicked gr son.  I called sil on it and sil said "he kicked me first-I said you are the adult and he said thats my child.  Like he can do what he wants because its his child.  



I feel like a rubber band that is being stretched all the time and I know my breaking point is coming.

Family drama

Why would you get mad at me for getting angry at someone that has hurt you?  And if you feel that way why are you still in my house?  You get your dad and me to help you get a refridgerator. you put it in the house you wanted.  He moves in and you do not want to live with him so for almost 4 months you have lived here and your dad is paying the payments for the refridgerator andyour idiot husband signs up for cable.  Is there something wrong with that picture??????  Plus no one is paying the rent or the electric and where do you think your idiot husband is going to be when he gets kicked out of the house for non payment? 

So does anyone want to adopt a short old overweight mama-grandmama and get me out of this soap opera that I am living in/'

stress stress stress

it has not been a good morning and I still have to go lto the school to eat a lunch with grandbaby cause his mama and daddy can not miss a few hours of work to give to their son,  I know that sounds bad on my part but they could make those hours up their jobs is a little flexable.  Then off to the food bank and then home and homework and laundry and supper to cook.    And now my car is undrivable .

I sure hope everyones elses day is going better than mine.


God bless