have not been able to lift, or sweep or a few other things since the operation. It has been 2 months since the operation and this week I thought sure I would be ok to move stuff. I really wanted a tree up for Christmas so when Christmas was over I just stuck everything in a corner and this week I started going through it and bending and making neat. Now I am weak and tired just like I felt a month ago.

My gyn/surgeon told me that this operation is so different than -like an appendectomy, he said it takes a really long time to over it. A lady I go to church with said up to 6 months, but I felt so good and had started walking and was eating good, and had energy. The church friend told me -she said you will have two or three good days and then a day bad. did I listen no, and now I feel so run down, like all I want to do is go sit and not move.

Dd is coming over today so she and I can go through some of her stuff from her first mariage and get rid of it. (First husband was a crackhead and sold nearly everything they had to buy drugs. Dh and I helped her out and gave her money to divorce the no good man. but that is an entirely different thread) It is time to get rid of the stuff she does not want instead of keeping it in my house. She does not need to hold onto memories from him.

I know that there were some good times before he started letting crack rule his life, but she has remarried and has a baby by 2nd husband.I know that I probably sound harsh. But when we found out that he had a problem he wanted to get straight we opened up our house and helped him get a job and did not charge to let them live here and he stole my car after 2 months of being clean.

True I got it back but that just turned me dd and dh against him. He came back and 2 weeks later he left and a yr later dd divorced him. About 3 months later he remarried. He married a woman in her 30's that lived alone and had an establised household. About 6 months after that his new wife sent word to dd that new wife knew why dd divorced him. New wife left crack head. There was no money left in her bank account, he had forged her name to get it. And he was selling her stuff to get money.

I think I will just get a chair and sit in there with dd and let her do all the work. Because the work really really needs to be done, I want that storage room for a spare bedroom and right now it is filled up with junk from her and us and I have a few boxes still packed up from our move 8 years ago.

Obviously I can get rid of the stuff if I have not needed it in 8 yrs.

Did you read this rambling post?

Would you believe that I think in just this rambling way?

Have a good day everyone